First and foremost know what level of expectation there is before getting into the situation. Is it a relaxing evening with friends with minimal service or a nice dinner with family with attention to serving?
Use non-verbal substitutions when communication in not possible
- eye contact, gesturing (pointing with eyes, inconspicuous hand signals)
- patting seat next to me to show slave can sit
- possibly text messaging if it can remain inconspicuous
- placing a hand on thigh to indicate permission to eat
Request permission/Permit or deny by stating intention or destination
- “I’m going to the kitchen to get a drink, do you want one?” - does Master need anything
- “Do I have time to use the bathroom before we go?” - may I use the bathroom
- “Didn’t you already have a chocolate bar today?” - no cake for you!
- “This cake is really good, you should try some.” - you can have a treat
Hide offering service to Master by offering service to whole group
- “Can I get anyone anything while I’m up?”
Do small things without drawing attention to it
- walking with a hand on the back of the slave’s neck
- having the slave carry things while shopping
- sitting on the floor when others are or when seats are needed by others
- making coffee for self and Master
- putting oneself in the place to open doors according to who usually opens the doors
Discreet play
- taping over inside of sunglasses and walking around with the slave wearing them being guided by Master using agreed upon signals to alert to turns, steps up or down, etc.
- a leash attached to a collar and fed through the arm of a jacket, holding hands means holding the leash
- under clothing bondage and plugs
- ankle cuff with or without bell attached
- collar under a scarf
There are any number of ways to continue a PE dynamic no matter what situation you are in as long as expectations are known ahead of time and a little bit of planning goes into it. As in anything with this lifestyle, communication is key.
- Lee
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